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I had a wonderful dream last week about being part of a group of female guests at a wedding in another country. These were women of all ages and ethnicities (not unusual), and they included me as if I were their sister (very unusual for me.) The wedding was being held soon, so I went with the others to a huge mall, where we purchased the gowns we were going to wear at the ceremony.

We went through many, many shops, which seemed to take an entire day, and the other women helped me pick out my gown. These were voluminous layered garments, and the style was sort of a cross between a kimono and a sari with five or six different separate pieces made of vibrant printed organza.

I had no idea how to wear mine, so back at our hotel the other women helped me dress, joking and teasing me the entire time. I admired the others's gowns, and one woman added a dark leather bodice with hers that was a kind of signature look.

I'm not a group-joiner, but I was happy to be part of the one in my dream. Maybe because they included me instead of treating me like an outsider. Anyway, it was fun.

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