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For Kat

In case you're still lurking out there, Katherine (she knows about Valerean now), I thought I'd devote today to some old pics of you.

You are amazing. You always have been. I have so many good memories, all thanks to you.

Being your mother has been this incredible gift, and a huge responsibility. I'm in awe of you, and I want you to stay healthy, and safe, and protect you in every way that I can.

I also wanted you to have the freedom to be who you are, and find your passion. I think I've done that.

So from the first day of school (remember this?) I made myself let you go out into the world to find your path.

Remember that I believe in you.

And I love you.

Katherine will be graduating from college summa cum laude in the top 5% of her class, by the way. I give her all the credit for that.

Comments

nightsmusic said…
Congratulation, Katherine!! It's amazing how they manage to succeed, sometimes brilliantly, in spite of us, isn't it?
Maria Zannini said…
Congratulations, Kat! And well done, mom. You gave her the foundation to stand on and rise.

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